RESCUE FROM A MAN'S
PERSPECTIVE
Okay guys –
listen up! We’re talking about dog
rehabilitation, but first, let me give you
some background on myself. I was a rough &
tough cop for almost thirty years. The
majority of that time was spent working
“specialized assignments.” That means that for
most of my career, I spent my days hanging
with some really bad, violent people. I took
on the persona of a “bad guy” to fit into
whatever group I was infiltrating. I’ve been
stabbed, shot at and beaten up (by cops) just
to “fit in” with the “bad guys” in order to
gain their trust.
So, how does a guy who spent the majority of
his life pretending to be a “bad ass” end up
rehabilitating small dogs? Well, for starters,
I have always had a soft spot in my heart for
the elderly, children and animals. As my wife
got into animal rescue and began bringing home
rescued dogs that were on the “kill” list, I’d
watch them closely.
Dogs are amazing animals. Their sole goal in
life is to please and to love unconditionally.
But when they’ve been neglected or abused,
their own fear blocks out these goals and you
end up with an abused, aggressive,
people-feared animal. All of the love is
there. It’s just covered up by fear and
trepidation. The very definition of
rehabilitation is:
“To
restore to good health or useful life, as
through therapy and education.”
So, how does
one do that? Well, I’m no expert in dog
psychology, but the first thing I do is
observe the dog’s behavior. Is his tail down
between his legs? Does he growl at either
people or other dogs? Is he food aggressive?
Child aggressive? Does he urinate
uncontrollably or shake when it’s a warm day?
Does he run and find a “hiding place”? Does he
“freeze” when other dogs approach him?
If you’ve ever played poker, you’ve learned to
watch for “tells” from your opponent. “Tells”
are little signals that most players give
without realizing it. They may shuffle their
cards when they have a bad hand. Or scratch
their nose when their hand is a winner. These
examples are exaggerated, but you get the
idea.
Well, it’s
the same for dogs. By merely observing their
“tells,” you can learn a lot about their
specific problem and begin to rehabilitate
them accordingly. The two most important
things that you’ll need are Patience and
Time!! For some, it’s offering them
“treats” in order to gain their trust. For
others, it’s simply a matter of holding them,
stroking them gently and letting them relax as
they feel your calming energy. Still others
will react if we simply ignore them and let
them come to us on their own terms. Each and
every rescue dog has his/her own fears and
it’s up to us more intelligent humans to
analyze those fears and change the animal’s
behavior.
Of all of the
dogs that my wife has brought home from
rescue, most I can re-hab in a day or two. The
most current dog she brought home was lying in
my lap within 90 minutes and even offering his
belly to me for a good scratching (a dog who
rolls over and offers his most vulnerable body
part – his belly, is a completely trusting and
submissive dog). He’s telling me, “Okay, I
trust you.” For the rest of the evening,
whenever I moved, he followed me throughout
the house. When I would sit down, he would
jump up on my lap and curl up. I created a
“safe zone” for him and he responded
accordingly.
I can’t say
that everything about dog rehabilitation is
easy. I have been working one dog that have
yet to trust me totally. But, after studying
their individual histories, it’s not
surprising. A young, ten-year-old boy who
always wore a baseball cap abused one. Well,
the first time I saw the first dog, I was
wearing a baseball cap and he reacted in the
only way he knew how. The cap had triggered
the abuse he had suffered at the hands of the
young boy.
Dogs are always a “work in progress” and
unlike us, ‘live in the moment’ their entire
lives. The important thing to remember is to
not give up or get frustrated. NEVER
yell or scream at the dog. This defeats the
whole purpose of rehabilitation. Weeks of
proper rehabilitation can be erased with one
loud scolding. Use a calm voice whenever you
command the dog. And be consistent with your
language. Keep the commands short: “Come”
“Sit” “Stay” “Down”
As I said at
the beginning, I’m not a dog psychologist. I’m
just a guy who loves animals and wants to give
dogs the best life possible. Remember, their
sole goal in life is to give unconditional
love and to please their owners. If you’re
interested in rehabilitating a dog, you need
to understand something. Dog rehabilitation is
as much of a commitment (if not more) as
owning a dog outright.
But if you
make that commitment, you’ll find it a very
rewarding and noble accomplishment. If you
need any pointers or have any questions, there
are several books on the market about dog
rehabilitation that you can purchase at
bookstores or online.
Good luck and
Welcome to the “Pack!”
©2008 Paul G.
Nelson (www.paulgnelson.com) All rights
reserved.
Special Note: Paul Nelson is the President of
TLC
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